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Old 04-12-2007, 04:55 PM
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I have a sister of 15 years of age who keeps on comparing herself with others. She feels she is not that beautiful though I know that she is. I do tell her but she says I’m fooling her. She keeps on nagging me to buy her new clothes in the same style that her friends wear. My sister is becoming as headache for me I don’t know what to do. Help me to tackle this problem.
let her explore some styles, but let her know that being a wannabe is not a real cool thing to want to be rofl
she's trying to decide what kind of style she likes i suppose and there's nothing wrong about that. and this is the age where she wants to feel accepted by her peers and she may feel that wearing the same kind of clothes as her friends will make her look cool and 'in'.
maybe it'd be a good idea to let her know that true friends aren't decided according to 'attire' but rather for the inner self.
on the other hand, it wouldn't be right to suppress her want to explore some different styles
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