Hi Razzle!
What a good question! It's tough to get the desired looks you're asking for without cosmetic surgery. However, there are small ways to decreasing puffiness around the upper eye area. I understand it is access skin, but maybe doing some eye treatments to reduce any puffiness will help even a bit!
The cold spoon is one way and laying off the side of your bed (so your head is hanging off) for a couple minutes every morning reduces puffiness or bags around the eye area by bringing the blood up to the face to circulate more.
Also, eye creams that have illuminatives in them can reflect the light so it does not look as saggy. As well as eye creams that straighten and tighten the eye area work just as great.
The Anew products from Avon have amazing feed back. Here are some great ones:
Hydrofirming Eye Cream
Lighten Up Plus Eye Cream/Brightens eye area.
ANEW ULTIMATE Transforming Lift Eye Cream/Helps firm, contour and lift the eye area
ANEW Ultimate 3-Piece Set/contours and firms the eye area and Smoothes facial folds and creases
All those are on my site
AVON Representative SARAH PERONI serving the San Pedro, CA area
As for jaw... There really isn't a way to widen your jaw without surgery. I cannot click on the picture to pull it up. If you find a way, let me know...I'm intrigued!
-Sarah